Nan is in a Nursing Home

It’s a scary and disturbing thought that anyone could do anything to Nan, but still, for some reason, my mind is dwelling on it. Nan, my grandma, went to a nursing home last month. She’s 91, and she had a stroke three months ago. My parents said it was time, but it was a teary decision for all. Nan still has her wits about her, she knows what’s going on, and she agreed it was probably time, if for no other reason than to let us all get on with living while she gets on with dying.
She actually said that. She’s got a pretty dark sense of humor, Nan does.

Well, now she’s in a nursing home, and I’ve been reading up on what it’s like. I have to read up on it because Nan won’t tell me anything negative. She’s always been very protective of me, so when I ask how things are, she just says they’re great, everyone’s great, the food is great, the staff is great, the doctor’s great. You get the picture. Even if the place was awful she wouldn’t tell me. She might tell Mom, but she wouldn’t tell me.

So, I started researching, and I read about all this awful stuff. Nursing homes can lead to people giving up. They can lead to depression. I found out about nursing home abuse, which I guess is rare, but still worries me. It all worries me.

I know I shouldn’t worry. Nan, if anything, is in better spirits. She seems to genuinely be enjoying herself. She says she’s found herself one last boyfriend. It’s cute. I guess they both grew up in the same area way on the other side of the country.

She also has her “backup boyfriend,” which is what she calls her doctor, who seems like a nice guy. Really, the place is far nicer than I expected. It’s brightly colored, the nurses are friendly. The food, actually, isn’t bad.

But I’m still worried. I keep thinking she’s hiding all these awful things. Maybe it’s just I miss her. Maybe part of me wishes it was awful so she’d be forced to come back. But then, we really can’t take care of her. It was getting to be such a burden that Mom had to take six months off work, which made it hard to pay bills. Mom and Dad seem so much happier and less stressed now, and we still see Nan three times a week. The nursing home is close, which is a bonus.

I don’t know. I should just get over all this and try to accept the new situation. The nursing home is nice. Nan is happy. She’s as healthy as she can be at 91. She’s got a boyfriend after just a month. My family’s doing well.

I’m just going to keep telling myself that until I believe it.

Your Options When Filing For Bankruptcy

Money is one of, if not the, most important governing factors for society. The presence, or lack, of money, can determine people’s actions as a result of humans being self-interested beings. It is incredibly fascinating that a substance which has no real value other than the one implied by the government has managed to cause people to act out in ways they would not normally. It is one of the most interesting phenomena in human culture around the world. For a social construct to have so much governing influence on the citizens of the population, there must be some concerns with regards to money. Specifically, what is endured by people who are not making enough or any?

While the global economy is continuing to diversify in the types of products and services that it offers it is important to remember that not every business venture will prove beneficial for everyone. Because of the rapid rate of innovation across the economy, there are new products available every day that can steal consumer attention. In times of great difficulty, some business owners may find themselves being crushed by an enormous cloud of debt. In cases where an individual or company is considering filing for bankruptcy, they should be sure to explore their available bankruptcy options. Officially filing for bankruptcy can have lasting implications on one’s financial records or possibilities, so it is imperative to be fully educated on the procedures that are involved. Bankruptcy can be one of the most stressful things someone faces in their life. Financial institutions can be invasive of an individual’s privacy or harass them for their payment. Lending agencies will not offer any valid solutions, and assistance is not usually available from any other sources.

Fortunately, while bankruptcy continues to affect millions of people, we see a general decline in the amount of filed bankruptcy cases. According to the United States Courts, bankruptcy filings have gone down by 6.9% as of 2016. This is excellent in regards to the thousands of people who will not have to undergo the rigorous and intense process of bankruptcy procedures but rest assured there are still hundreds of thousands of victims of bankruptcy across the country. Serious work remains to be done to insure that coming businesses have a domain to succeed with their business ventures.

Money is one of the most important constructions in human society. It has the potential to govern the governed in a way that no previous construct has been able to do. Even when currencies differ across the globe, they are respected and used for trade purposes. Unfortunately, due to capitalism and other systems that depend on the eventual downfall of smaller businesses, many people in the United States have fallen victim to the cruel treatments of financial institutions. Citizens should not fear the actions of the institutions that were meant to assist in their economic success, they should be able to thrive and benefit from them.

Wrongful Death due to a Truck Accident

On the morning of August 1, 2006, a minivan that had four occupants (a woman driver, her mother, and her two sons – one was 15 months old while the other was 3 years old) was caught in a traffic congestion on Interstate 80. It slowed down and stopped behind a flat-bed truck as a three-axle Intercontinental 9400 semi-trailer approached behind it at more than 50mph. Failing to slow down in time, the semi-trailer rear-ended the minivan crushed and slammed it into the flat-bed truck, causing it to be engulfed in a horrific fire. No one survived the accident: not the semi-trailer driver and, definitely, not the occupants of the minivan.

Just like everyone else on the road, the individuals who drive 18-wheelers and other large cargo trucks have an immense responsibility to drive carefully. However, truckers and their employers need to shoulder the responsibility of safety on a much higher scale because the vehicles they drive are so much more massive than the average person’s car. When they are involved in an accident, especially at highway speeds, trucks can create devastation on the streets and seriously injure anyone involved.

The Federal Motor Carrier Safety Administration (FMCSA) says that fatal truck accidents happen almost 11 times a day, resulting to more than 4,000 deaths and more than 100,000 injuries each year. This number of fatalities caused by trucks is only a tenth of the number of deaths due to car accidents; however, truck accidents are always much more tragic- often the cause of disabling injuries or wrongful death.

Despite the threats presented by trucks, there is no way that these huge vehicles will be removed from U.S. roads and highways due to their major contribution to the country’s economy. Thus, dispel the fear of so many other motorists from sharing the road with these vehicles, the government makes sure that only qualified, licensed and well trained drivers would be allowed to operate them. Laws have also been passed to ensure the safe operation of trucks; laws like the allowed maximum number of driving hours and the required number of hours of rest, lower blood alcohol concentration (BAC) limit, which is 0.04%, strict prohibition of the use of cell phone, use of standard tires and brakes, regular maintenance of the vehicle, and a mandate on employers to keep bad drivers off the road.

Upon digging deeper into the accident mentioned above, a private investigator hired by the lawyer of the victim’s family found out that driver of the semi-truck had 3 past cases of rear-end accidents, 7 warnings from his safety manager, and drove at an unsafe speed prior to the accident: the warnings and the past cases of rear-end accidents, according to traffic authorities, should have been seen by the driver’s employer as red flags for unsafe driving, more than enough reason to keep the driver off the road.

Losing a loved one in an accident caused by the poor judgment or negligence is unbearably tragic; you may not be thinking about legal action at first, and that is normal. However, as time goes on and the wound begins to heal, seeking justice against the party responsible for the loss of your loved one might become more important to you.

Truck accidents can have life-altering consequences. The injuries sustained in such accidents and their resulting medical bills can leave a person unfairly dealing with the mistakes made by a negligent truck driver, company, or manufacturer on a permanent basis. However, it is possible to hold the person or persons accountable for your injuries and receive damages for all your sufferings and losses.


Medical Malpractice: Lack of Informed Consent

Medical malpractice occurs when a medical professional has become incompetent, negligent, or reckless, resulting into the harm of a patient. Typically, a medical malpractice incident happens this way: First, there is a legitimate relationship between the professional and the patient. Second, the professional then has the duty of care towards this patient. Third, this duty of care has been breached because of the professional’s action or inaction. Fourth, the breach has resulted into the patient getting harmed.
It is a good thing that, according to the website of Karlin, Fleisher & Falkenberg, LLC, those who have been hurt because of medical malpractice may have legal options, such as making the responsible party accountable for the damages.
One way medical malpractice can happen is through the lack of informed consent. Lack of informed consent occurs when a medical professional has failed to inform the patient of the possible risks of an upcoming operation, medication, or any kind of treatment process, and then the patient ends up getting hurt.
The medical professional should properly inform the patient of the following:

  • The treatment process’s description
  • Why the treatment process is necessary
  • The treatment process’s goal
  • The potential risks of undergoing the treatment process
  • The treatment process’s chance of being successful
  • Other treatment processes that may serve as alternatives

After being informed thoroughly, the patient will then need to sign papers of consent, to prove that he or she is willing to undergo the treatment process with full knowledge of what could happen, both positively and negatively.
“Full knowledge” is also an important part there. So, in essence, lack of informed consent is not just about consent itself, because the patient’s decision should be based on a thorough understanding of the procedure and its possible risks.
This is particularly important on treatment processes that may have details that can make the patient back out. Those cases may be a case of medical malpractice due to lack of informed consent because the patient has agreed even though he or she has not been fully informed of the risk of pursuing the treatment process.

Any Person Charged with Statutory Rape can still Defend Himself/Herself in Court

Rape or forcible rape is a major crime in many jurisdictions. It is totally non-consensual and is accomplished through the use of force and/or weapon. Though also considered a crime, statutory rape is non-violent and an act between consenting individuals. It is considered a crime ,however, because one of the participants in the act is a person below the legal age of consent (which may be 16, 17 or 18, depending on the state where it was committed). Since on of the participants is below the legal age of consent, statutory rape is, therefore, also called rape of a child, aggravated sexual battery, sexual exploitation of a minor or solicitation of minor. This sexual crime carries very harsh punishments, including large fines, years in jail and, in many states, a mandatory lifetime registration as a sex offender.

Statutory rape statutes are aimed at protect minors from sexual predators. Despite this noble intention, however, it cannot be denied that many of these statutes have unintended consequences due to many legal gray areas. One example is charging with statutory rape two teenagers who engage in consensual sex simply because both are just 15 years old. Though underage, they can both be convicted and possibly even be required to register as sex offenders for life.

Many states have passed the “close in age exemptions,” to save many teenagers from statutory rape prosecution and conviction. This law that will not criminalize: (i) two individuals under the age of consent if they have sexual relationship with one another; or, (ii) an older individual who has a sexual relationship with a person who is under the age of consent. There is a limit in this “close in age exemptions,” though.

  • In Delaware, for example, where the age of consent is 18, a person who is either 16 or 17 years old is still legally allowed to consent with an older partner, so long as this partner is under the age of 30. however, those under the age of 12 may not consent under any circumstances (ages of minors and older partner vary from state-to state, thus, it is very important that one knows the differences in allowed age).
  • Marriage exemption. This allows a young individual to consent, but only to his/her spouse.
  • Close in age exemption of four years. This means that a person under the age of consent may consent to an older partner who in no more than four years older than him/her.

On the other hand, older individuals (such as teachers, guardians, government workers, or others who have position or authority) who take advantage of minors, face more extreme punishment if proven guilty.

There are instances, however, when a person had reason to believe that the one who consents to him/her is over the age of consent when, in fact, he/she is not. This can be due to a fake I.D. or when a person lies about his/her age. Whatever the case, anyone charged with statutory rape should understand that this is one serious offense that can ruin many years of his/her future if he/she is convicted. A conviction will require that his/her name, current address, and picture be displayed in the Internet, that is, registered into the national sex offender registry, for all to see and judge.

The law firm Horst Law explains that, “As frightening as the immediate consequences of a conviction for any sexual offense are, another cause for serious concern is that a conviction will directly affect the way you are able to live the rest of your life. Since you will have to register as a sex offender if you are convicted, the outcome of this case is likely to affect your employment opportunities, living arrangements, and conceivably even your personal relationships.” Though all these can be overwhelming, a person charged with a sexual offense should remember that he/she has not been convicted of anything yet. More importantly, he/she will still be able to defend himself/herself and his/her reputation in court with the help of an experienced attorney.

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